Not to but in here, and if you 3 want to be alone after I say this, I'll go. But chelsea, wouldn't you agree that your job as her mother is to guide her to the happiest life she can have? And make sure she's prerpared for that life? Cause that's what you did, you raised a strong willed, independant, young woman, who saw what she wanted, and went for it. And Eva, don't you think that her concerns weren't entirely out of jealousy, but out of a sense of trying to prepare you for what is a very big decision and wanted to make sure you were absolutely sure, and not just thinking with hormones?